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  • Honestly, I don't think it has anything to do with Women-urban situations-cool careers-men (rich) men (interesting) men (hung)-sex (eh) sex (good) sex (amazing). I think you would get the same results if you hooked up rodeo gals and cowboys, doctors and nurses, or teachers and preachers.

    I know you guys don't want to hear this but... Anytime you put women (alone) together for an extended period of time, whether it's a girlfriend or a work situation, the topic will always eventually turn to sex, sometimes graphic details about the men we love and past lovers.Sex in the city chat is typical all over, in every class and county. Even among the Amish.

    There are many reasons why we women talk and listen: Advice, belonging, showing off. We want to know if we're better or worse off than our friends. What don't we know that they know. Is my sex life normal? Is he normal? How can I improve it?

    As a nurse, I've heard it all. Things I've even wanted to erase from memory about my co-workers because they're the most prolific sex talkers of all, but what's sad is in hearing their stories... I don't think most most of them have matured past the panty-tickle backseat of the car stage and have experienced an orgasm. So, is this what so many seek ?

    For women, sex begins in the brain. Romantic erotica can begin this step. It can also help them explore their sexuality and technique from a safe distance (what might feel nice?) and give them topics to explore with their girlfriends (is this normal?)

    In other words, cater to the sexually frustrated, give them ideas, let them feel normal in their desires, and give them characters they can truest and care about to guide them.

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